Threesome Hookup

The threesome. The menage a trois. The "it takes three to tango". Sometimes, the "Oh, I forgot you were here, too."

Whatever you call them, threesome hookups are an astonishingly prevalent kink. Almost nine out of every ten people fantasize about group sex (HerFamily.ie) in some form or another, making it the single most common sexual fantasy in the United States.

Let’s cover the details and types of threesomes and threesome partners, how to successfully land a threesome as a man, and how to find a third as a couple. Don't worry, we'll also cover the best dating apps for finding what you need in this friendly, exciting, and wild community.

So, what makes threesome hookups and casual encounters so appealing to so many people? Sex experts suggest there are several reasons, including power dynamics (cucks, hotwives, et cetera.) and experimentation (trying out new partners, genders, and activities.)

There are more reasons to want a threesome than these, but as these are the most common ones, they give us a sound basis for exploring the options for successfully landing a threesome. Let’s approach the subject of how to find a threesome into two different categories: finding a third person, and being the third person.

How To Have A Threesome Hookup as a Single Man

A lot of single men think that a threesome is something that only comes around once in a lifetime, when Halley’s comet circles around and the planets are aligned. This is not true. Finding a threesome as a single guy can actually be as simple as downloading an app to your phone.

First, decide what kind of threesome you want. Then, develop a plan to secure that type of threesome with the proper tools.

Finding Two Women for a Threesome Hookup

No sugar coating here, the male-female-female threesome as a single guy is probably the hardest to find. Hard, but not impossible. If you want to join that particular hall of fame, here are a few tips:

• Find a “package deal.”

A lot of times, a successful MFF threesome comes from two female friends or partners wanting to get it on with each other, as well as a guy, as a way to experiment, get kinky, or just have some fun.

Several hookup apps, like Hookup, have female friend couples on the platform looking for a guy just like you to bring into their bedchamber. This is your best bet.

• Make yourself a prime candidate.

Make sure your profile on threesome hookup sites shows the best version of yourself. Avoid posting dick pics or that one picture of you holding up a fish seven years ago.

Make sure you look clean, healthy, and charming in all your pics. A photo of you with a dog always helps too. If you’re over 6-foot, mention that.

If you like doing things the old-fashioned way, get some nicer clothes and cologne, clean yourself up, and hit the clubs. Put the charm on and see what you can do! Don’t be afraid of rejection.

• Fit into the dynamic.

Some duos of women want to experiment with a guy together as a bonding experience. Some want a submissive guy they can dominate together.

Some want to be dominated by a man together, in which case you’ll need to do a few pushups in your room before talking to them to get your testosterone up. Just kidding. 

Whatever the situation you find yourself in, it helps to communicate and ask questions along the way. If you show that you want to be a good partner, things are far more likely to work out.

The most important thing about finding two women for a threesome as a single guy is to make sure the women are comfortable, and that they feel safe with you. It should be obvious, but don’t be creepy, or a dick. Not only is making women uncomfortable a horrible thing to do, it also reduces your chances of landing a threesome to exactly zero.

Finding a Couple For a Threesome Hookup as a Single Man

If you want to get busy with someone’s wife or girlfriend, or you’re just looking to have some fun with a couple, hookup apps have tons of those as well. 

Some couples are selective, some aren’t. Some want a bull, some want a sub, and some just want you to shut up and be a penis. Whatever you want to do, you can find it on hookup apps. Just remember to be safe and communicate your own needs as well!

Of course, single men aren’t the only ones who want threesomes.

Finding a Threesome Partner As a Couple

If you and your partner want to find the right person to enjoy together, the first step is communication.

This is the case for most sexual indulgences, and for good reason. A pleasurable first experience can lead to more opportunities for exploration later on!

That’s why, as tedious as it may sound, it’s extremely important to make sure you and your partner discuss the kink, and the people who will be involved, at length before indulging.

This serves two purposes: First, it can actually generate ideas to make the experience even more fun than it already would have been. Second, it eliminates the chance of any surprises during the act.

For example, if you communicate to your wife that you’re not comfortable with her going “all the way” with the very kind bisexual man you met on a threesome hookup site, then everyone involved knows that that’s a line not to cross. If you’re shy about it and don’t mention it before the threesome, the line might get crossed before you have a chance to stop it.

Once you have communicated with your partner about your wants, needs, and hardlines, it’s time to start looking for a third.

Best Hookup Apps For Finding Threesomes

The fastest and easiest way to find a third partner as a couple is with a threesome hookup app. There are dozens of threesome apps and hookup sites to choose from, but not all of them are good. Here is a shortlist of our top three threesome websites for finding local threesome hookups.

Hookup

Hookup is the most comprehensive hookup app for couples and singles alike. With a huge member base (no pun intended), it’s the best place for you to find a threesome.

By far and away the fastest and most likely threesome site for finding a second woman to please, a boyfriend for your girlfriend, or a woman to experiment with her, is Hookup. All kinds of people looking for all kinds of different things meet there with no preconceived notions or judgments. It's truly the best threesome dating site.

Adult Friend Finder

Adult Friend Finder is one of the oldest and most-loved threesome dating sites to find a third partner for sex. With members of its active open minded community all talking about their horniest desires in tons of group chat rooms, it’s no surprise that AFF has been a pretty common choice in threesome sites for decades.

While it’s not perfect, Tinder is still a solid choice for finding a third for your couple in the bedroom. It has an extremely active user base, which means you will meet tons of totally cool and hot people. While only a few of them might be into being your third, since it's not technically designed for real threesome hookups, it’s still worth a shot.

Using these apps, you can pretty easily find a friend to join in your threesome. Just be sure to make sure they know what they’re agreeing to, that they and your partner are communicating, and that they aren’t a catfish.

Using these tips, and by remembering to communicate, you’ll be slithering around on the bedspread in a tangle of limbs in no time!