Hookup Map

We get it:  the process of finding hookup partners often takes way too long. When you want to find a hookup, you want to spend the least amount of time searching, so you have more time to have fun. Facebook, Tinder, OkCupid? So many choices!

There’s no shortage of apps to help you out these days. Before you download any dating app, or go visiting Facebook, you’ll want to read this simple guide to finding horny singles that want to hook up now. We’ll show you the best apps to meet new people for a one-night stand, or frequent booty call.

Is There Really Such a Thing As a Free Hookup Map?

Yes and no, but mainly no. While location-based searching is definitely a thing, there isn’t as of yet a hookup platform that displays an actual pin on a map. Why? It’s a major privacy risk having a precise map.

While meeting up with a stranger for a booty call is an exciting, risky rush, most sane people are still protective of their privacy. So, displaying your exact location on a map to the world doesn’t exactly seem prudent.

That being said, Snapchat and Facebook are probably the closest things there is to a hookup map. The “Snap Map” feature displays an approximate location of a person on a map. However, only your friends can see your location. So, if you hook up with your friends, then it could be called a hookup map!

The gay-oriented platform Grindr does have a map-based feature where you can know if someone is open to a hookup. However, many users choose to hide this, so they don’t have to worry about some weirdo just coming up to them on the street.

Mostly you’ll find that you can see what city other users are in, or what neighborhood. That’s usually enough to know if folks are close enough on the map to you for a quick sex date.. 

Features To Look For In Hookup Apps

All hookup apps are not created equal. There are several features you’ll want to look for in any application before you click to sign up.

Free Or Paid?

Most apps you’ll find are free to download. Except for Facebook, few of them are really free to use, however. Most people will want to pay for a membership each month when signing up to unlock premium features that will make searching easier and more efficient. 

In the Apple App Store, start by clicking the “in app purchases” dropdown to learn the details of the costs. You’ll see exactly how much it costs per month to use the services found in the app. Usually, you can save money by paying yearly instead of each month.

Apple Or Android?

iPhone users will want to make sure that any app they download works with iOS. Obviously, if it’s found in the Apple store, it will be. Sometimes, you’ll find a hookup site on your desktop or laptop that looks appealing, but it doesn’t have a companion iOS dating app. If that’s the case, you’ll miss out if it doesn’t work on your device.

Mobile Friendly

Some dating sites don’t have a companion app. At the very least, they should have a mobile-friendly page that looks good on a phone screen. Remember that you’ll want to be able to use all the chat and search features on-the-go, so it needs to work on your phone!

What App Do People In Your City Use?

If you are signing up for a fast, local hookup where you live, then it’s going to matter a great deal how many people in your city use a particular app. This mainly comes into play if it’s an app that’s geared towards an international city or a place you don’t live. 

Timely Notifications

If you are interested in someone and they are interested in you, then you need to know right away! On the other hand, getting too many irrelevant notifications isn’t helpful either. You want to make sure the settings allow you to customize exactly how many notifications you get.

Matches That Are Your Age

Whatever hookup application you choose, take a look at the profiles and see the age of your potential matches. If you are a cougar, make sure you’ll be able to pick from a pool of young guys! Thankfully, it’s pretty easy to determine if the site has what you want based on the profiles.

Photos and Video Capability

Obviously, the ability to view photos is pretty crucial. How you display your photos can be important as well. Make sure the settings allow you to make certain photos private to only the users you choose if you are going to post anything naughty!

What’s The Best Hookup App?

There isn’t necessarily one best app. Each one has its strengths and weaknesses, so it’s crucial to find the one that’s best for you.

With its attractive, simple appearance, this is one app that’s a pleasure to use. It’s easy to view profiles and send messages. The user base is massive, so you have a great chance of hitting it with your match! It offers a great chat function, and members are located all over the map. Some people call this “The Facebook of Sex.”

If you are one of those people that’s looking for a hookup right now, but might be open to love in the future, then this is the app for you. Their tagline is: “The Dating App Designed to be Deleted.” So, their stated goal is to bring people together for long-term relationships. However, many users find that it's a great hookup platform.

This app is probably the most popular. It has nearly as many members as Facebook. It’s known for the “swipe left” and “swipe right” terms. Left means you aren’t interested, and right means that you are! 

Since it’s been around for so long, and so many people are familiar with it, it’s a great place to start looking for your hookup. With so many users, you are bound to find a match. Economical pay-per-month or year is available when you join.

Is Facebook a hookup app? It can be! One of the best things about Facebook is that it’s totally free, unlike many purpose-built dating apps. It’s probably better for dating than booty-calls, but give it a try!

Think of the advantages: it has probably the most users anywhere, and they are located all over the world. It has great security. The chat function is second-to-none. For a free app, Facebook is certainly feature-packed. Plus, you can customize the settings in the menu, post photos to your profile, and much more.

Here’s what we recommend: look for a mutual friend on Facebook that looks cute. Send them a message and invite them to chat! You’ll already have something in common, and you never know where it’s going to lead!

Pro Tips to Get The Most Out of Hookup Apps

Whether you are looking for love, or just a quickie, take some time to set up your dating app profile. Here are some tips to make sure your hookup is a success.

Make Your Intentions Clear To Other Users

While most people use hookup apps to set up a sex date. However, there are plenty of people that use these apps for more traditional dating, flirting, or just making friends. That’s totally cool! Save time by being upfront about what you want. If a hookup is what you’re looking for, then say that in your first message. 

The other people who aren’t interested in a hookup right now will appreciate knowing what you want. If you hit it off, you can always bookmark their profile and come back when you're less, ahem… horny!

Check the Reviews

The reviews that you’ll find posted online are your best source of “intel” on who the target audience is and what features you’ll find. Look for friends. One bad review doesn’t mean it sucks, but if you see a trend, that’s a warning sign.

Staying Safe Online

These days, security is something you need to take seriously. The good news is that with just a few simple steps and menu choices, you can stay safe while you are having fun.

Choose A Strong Password

Getting hacked is no fun. It puts your personal data stored on the site at risk, and could damage your online reputation. Choose a long, super strong, random password and change it periodically. Never use the same password for more than one site!

Have a Wingman

Never leave your wingman! In this context, a wingman is someone you can trust, who will have your back if something goes wrong. Your wingman can be a non-judgemental friend or family member. 

Just notify them by text that you are about to meet up with someone, and where. Set up a time to check back in. If they don’t hear from you, they can get help. 

Watch Your Personal Data

It’s not just being hacked that puts your data at risk. All of these sites collect a lot of personal data, and they often sell it to third-party companies. Decide what you really want out there! We recommend using a throwaway email address. 

Using prepaid credit cards is a good way to protect your financial data. Many sites will accept gift cards for major brands like Target, Amazon, Wal-Mart, and more as a form of payment. This is totally anonymous and keeps your data super safe.

Don’t Get Scammed

Finally, fake profiles are an easy way to have information phished, plus they are a huge hassle. Before you click on someone to chat, look at the picture. If it looks fake, it probably is!